Arnold walks in behind us, arms full of napkins waiting to be distributed on the long table running down the centre of the hall. ‘Eyeing up Mr Rogers, are we?’ he asks, following my gaze. ‘Probably very dull in bed, remember.’

I whack him on the arm. ‘Oh, would you shut up? I can’t believe I let you talk me in to showing you that list!’

Arnold chuckles and returns to napkin duty. I watch him go, smiling. Hates me almost as much as I hate him, that’s what I’d written on Arnold’s list. Well. That was about right, in the end.

‘Grandma? Did you want to say a few words before the food?’ Leena asks, as everyone takes their seats.

I look towards the door. When I turn back, Leena’s expression is a mirror of mine, I imagine – we both had our hopes up. But we can’t wait any longer before starting the meal.

I clear my throat and make my way to the head of the table. Leena and I are at the centre, an empty chair between us.

‘Thank you, everyone, for coming here today to celebrate our Carla.’ I clear my throat again. This might be harder than I’d thought it would be. Now I’m standing here, talking about Carla, it occurs to me how tricky it’ll be not to cry. ‘Not all of you knew her,’ I say. ‘But those who do will remember what a bright, fiery person she was, how she loved to be surprised, and how she loved to surprise us. I think she’d be surprised to see us all here, now, as we are. I like that.’

I sniff, blinking rapidly.

‘Carla left a … I don’t know the words for the sort of hole she left in our lives. A wound, a crater, I don’t know. It seemed – it seemed so utterly impossible that we were expected to go on without her.’ I’m crying now, and Arnold passes me one of the napkins. I take a moment to collect myself. ‘A lot of you know that earlier this year, Leena and I took a little sabbatical from each of our lives, and we stepped into one another’s shoes for a while. That time showed me and Leena that we were each missing a part of ourselves. Perhaps that part left us when Carla did, or perhaps it was gone long before, I’m not sure. But we needed to come back together again – not just to each other, but back to ourselves.’

There’s a sound from the doorway. I breathe in. Heads turn. I can’t look, I’m so hopeful it hurts, but then I hear Leena breathe out, a half-gasp, half-smiling laugh, and it tells me everything.

Marian looks so different. Her hair is cut short and dyed white blonde, stark against her tan; she’s wearing patterned trousers cuffed at the ankles, and though her eyes are full of tears, she’s smiling. I haven’t seen that smile – that smile, the real one – in so long that for an instant I feel like I’m seeing a ghost. She stands in the doorway, one hand on the frame, waiting.

‘Come in, Mum,’ Leena says. ‘We saved you a seat.’

I reach blindly for Arnold’s hand as the tears come in full force, sliding down my cheeks and misting my glasses as my daughter takes the empty chair beside me. I was a little afraid she’d never come home again, but here she is, and smiling.

I take a shaky breath and go on. ‘When people talk about loss, they always say that you’ll never be the same, that it will change you, leave a hole in your life.’ My voice is choked with tears now. ‘And those things are undoubtedly true. But when you lose someone you love, you don’t lose everything they gave you. They leave something with you.

‘I like to think that when Carla died, she gave each member of her family a little of her fire, her bravery. How else could we have done everything we’ve done this year?’ I look at Leena and Marian and swallow hard through the tears. ‘As we’ve muddled onwards, trying to learn how to live without her, I’ve felt Carla here.’ I tap my heart. ‘She’s given me a push when I’ve almost lost my nerve. She’s told me I can do it. She’s led me back to myself. I can say now with certainty that I am the best Eileen Cotton I’ve ever been. And I hope – I hope …’

Leena stands then, as I lean forward against the table, tears streaming down my cheeks. She raises her glass.

‘To being the best woman you can be,’ she says. ‘And to Carla. Always to Carla.’

Around us, everyone choruses her name. I sit down, my legs shaking, and turn towards Marian and Leena. Those big, dark, Cotton eyes look back at me, and I see myself mirrored there, in miniature, as Marian stretches out her hands and links us all together again.